Wednesday, February 2, 2011

What's New?

What ISN'T new might be a better question!  Things are rapidly changing in Munchkinland...hopefully for the better.  Hubby got a new job.  Although it doesn't really pay any more than his previous job, we save TONS of money on gas because there is no commute, and we will eventually save on his healthcare.  We currently pay out of pocket for independent health insurance and once his insurance through work kicks in, we'll save a bit there.  Hopefully the job works out and he works his way up the ranks...or something else (better) comes along.  We're definitely going to need it!

Which brings me to my next update.  I have made a HUGE decision regarding my future.  I have come the realization that I DON'T want to be a doctor.  Yes, seriously.  I have prepared for being an MD my entire life and now I realize IT ISN'T WORTH IT.  It's not worth the time I'll be away from my children and it's not worth putting off a family for WAY too many years.  With this realization, a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders.  I can't even tell you the relief I am feeling.  My calling to be a Mom far outweighs my desire to be a doctor.  I have spoken with several MDs who have pretty much confirmed my fears about the sacrifice it means for a family.  I have spoken to my old college advisor who supports my decision 100%.  I have also spoken with a few acquaintances who are the children of doctors and they also confirmed my fears.  The sacrifice for my family just isn't worth it to me.  (I do want to say at this point that although this decision is right for me personally right now, it may not be for everyone and I in no way look negatively upon those who do wish to pursue a career in medicine and have a family.  It is a completely personal decision.) 

I am still pursuing a career in the medical field, but one that will allow me to only work 3 days per week and make my own schedule.  Not to mention the money is (well, will be) fabulous.  I have a little bit of a road before I get there, but I am excited about it.  I will be going back to school in the near future and I can't wait!  The only thing I am apprehensive about is the financial situation when I quit my job to return to school.

The Munchkins are well.  Hubby's hours have changed with his new job, so I don't get to see him as much as I did, but the Munchkins have someone home most of the day so they are as happy as clams!  Today is only his 3rd day with this new schedule and right now I'm not too fond of it.  I miss him terribly, but I do find that it is easier to get things done around the house when he isn't home!  Ha!

We recently had some excitement around work.  A scene from Army Wives was filmed behind our building on Friday.  The cast and crew used our parking lot for their trailers, etc. and set up breakfast and lunch in our warehouse.  We were invited to eat with them and let me tell you the food was AMAZING!  If I ate like that every day I'd be 10,000 pounds!  They took us down to watch the filming of a scene and it was very cool.  I'm not sure how much I'm allowed to say so I'm just going to leave it at that.  We were asked not to take pictures out of respect for the actors and were told we couldn't post any pictures of the set up.  I didn't take very many pictures but I'll look between the pictures I have and the pictures my coworkers took and see if there is anything that I can post that won't get me in trouble!  I didn't recognize anyone (I don't watch the show although I should since it is filmed in my city) but a couple of my coworkers met Tony Serpico (he plays Colonel Frank Sherwood) and got a hug.  I wouldn't know him if I did see him!  There were only two of the main actors involved in the scene from what we were told, so none of the ladies were here.  I definitely would have recognized Catherine Bell if she had been here. :)

That's all for tonight.  I have more photoshoots to share with you soon!

Memoirs of a Munchkin Mommy

3 comments:

DSS said...

Well hi there!

So happy to hear that you have made a really big decision, and feel relieved :) I went to the Vet Scool @ Va Tech, and it was all I ever wanted to do. Be a Veterinarian. And 2 years in, I realized that was a dream that I really didn't have anymore.

I will never regret making that decision.

Snuggle those munchkins for me :)

Cole said...

I've missed you!!

I'm so glad that hubby has a new job and that you've made a career decision that you'll be a peace with.

Can't wait to see more pictures!!

sprinkles said...

Congrats to Dru on his new job! I hope it's something he enjoys and maybe he can work his way up for a better paying position with better hours.

As for school, I know you've mentioned to me before about not being sure that being away so much would be worth it. I'm glad that you made a final decision and that you feel a weight lifted off your shoulders. And if you change your mind in the future, you can always go back!

As for finances, I don't know if you'll want to do this but I got a loan to cover living expenses while I'm in school. I'm so glad I did because I always have a TON of homework and it would be difficult to work and get it all done.

I don't watch Army Wives but I didn't realize it was set in your town. That's kinda cool! I've never been on a set or met any actors but ages ago, I went to a rock music convention. I got to meet some musicians but unless my friends had pointed them out to me, I wouldn't have noticed most of them. And these were musicians I'd spent hours and hours of time gazing at pictures of in magazines.